To give love or to want love..

Why do two consenting humans, of various ages, race or religion enter into a relationship? Most probable reasons would be that they yearn for friendship, a companion and most ultimately love.

People do want something when in a relationship. Would that something make you feel good? Or improve your live better? Fulfilling your needs? Sometimes expecting too much in the relationship would result in one wanting more and giving less. In this case, a relationship could go sour, which could result in the lack of communication, less common interest so on and so forth. Ultimately this could lead to a separation temporarily or worst, permanently. Even a long term relationship could just end within a day or week.

Love is blind. Its true, I really agree to it. But am pretty sure, that this blindness wont be a permanent disability on your feelings. Sooner or later you will discover one's true color. It may take a short period or maybe a longer period for you to find out.

When love comes, you'll feel that he/she is the only one in your life. You ignored the most important people in your life be it your best friends or even your family members. You will give your utmost effort to make your partner happy, by spending more time with them whenever there is any free time.

Then comes the arguments, fights, misunderstandings, where you felt that he isn't the right one as he doesn't understand your situation.True love could withstand all these when couples compromise, hears out what each have to say and be more understanding.

Trust me, if you are not ready to be in love and give love, don't ever think of entering a relationship. Result could be that you could have your heart broken or breaking the other person's heart. Staying single doesn't harm yourself but in turn makes you a more happier person as you can have more freedom and more time to know yourself much better.

On a lighter note, love those who cherish you, who remembers you. Ignore those who doesn't care, as in the end, they wont make any single effect on how you lead your life. Love your family as they will always be there for you in your deepest trouble.


Till then
Signing Out
Finny

PS: The more you hold on, the more you'll lose them..